Dating with married woman
This is sort of Part II concerning single people having affairs with married people and why.
Recently, I wrote about why single women have affairs with married men.
So today it’s the more rare circumstance — those few single men who have affairs with married women.
And how the single male’s motivations and approach tends to be different than the single woman who is someone’s affair partner.
On a purely physical level, most men are going to enjoy their affairs with married women. You’re unlocking a woman full of sexual desire who is not getting her needs met at home, so of course the one night (or many nights) of sex is going to be unbelievably great. You don’t need to meet the parents and you won’t miss a single bowling night out with your buddies. But for married people who are already committed, they are just out to seek solutions to their unmet emotional and/or sexual needs.
She already feels she has that at home so she is looking for someone well-groomed and mysterious, especially if she is about to consider a sexual relationship outside of her marriage. A married woman in search of an illicit affair is probably looking more for an arrangement than an emotional bond, although the many conversations you will have may lead you to believe you are actually lovers.
Don’t let the temptation to think that there is more to this than a no strings attached relationship cloud your judgement.
There are no strings attached to it, either, so it’s just fantastic sex with seemingly no consequences. Men would love to have a lover who asks almost nothing of them. This especially applies to married women who date single guys. He’s not going to fall in love with you and marry you.
The married woman won’t expect presents or moan if he forgets to phone her. What this means for single men is the kind of sexual trip they crave without the guilt trip in the end. Practicality and convenience play a factor in affairs for the single man. You don’t have to worry about romantic dinners, tickets to the movies, or even “waiting” for sex. Supposing you’re a single guy out for a night with your friends perhaps night-clubbing, you see an attractive woman out with her friends and you strike up a conversation. He has no intention at all of staying with you for very long.